I don’t like being open-minded.
I live in my own world, which has no business to others.
Sometimes some friends say “You should have done …” or “You could have done…”, which I hate and makes me closed.
But one thing I found.
True trustful friends don’t speak in that way. They always hear me and give back a positive response sometimes with good advice. It’s not necessary to fear negative hurting words.
Although I’m not used to, I’m trying to be and keep open. So that I can gain much more and closer friendship.